Parental Control: Stopping Parental Alienation Boston MA

Stop parental alienation by separating fact from opinion when discussing your ex with the children.

by Jayne A. Major, Ph.D.

When people are in conflict, it is easy to get into the blame game, to feel superior, and see oneself as a victim.  Unfortunately, far too many parents lack boundary control. They share their feelings of misery and anger with their children. But when one parent speaks poorly about the other to their child and encourages the child to believe that the target parent is less worthy and less important, parental alienation syndrome (PAS) can occur. For your children, the results can be tragic.

You may think that your ex is the lowest, most vile, bottom dwelling snake in the swamp. But no matter how you feel about ex, you must reach deep into your character and be disciplined enough to behave responsibly and act according to what is best for your child. There is a big difference between fact and opinion.   Facts are true.  There is evidence or proof of what happened.  Opinions are feelings. They’re a spin that someone puts on facts. There is no proof that your ex actually is the lowest, most vile bottom dwelling snake in the swamp. This is an opinion. Proof would be something that is documented.  

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